"Oh Jay, no, that's not what Rae thinks it is. I can see how it might not be easy to explain to her. From what I've seen, she's someone who becomes easily intimate with people and probably doesn't understand what you're getting from this. So she's putting it into language that fits for her,"

He understands Jay's need as its something Charles looks for too and feels lucky to have with Erik. Someone who wants him for all of him.